Why Didn’t He Call?

Scene: Anyplace where two interested parties are inspired to exchange contact information.

Situation: Boy asks girl for number. Girl gives boy correct number. Boy says “I’ll call you.” Girl waits many days for boy to call. Boy never calls.

So many answers for this question… and girls ask it constantly: ”Why didn’t he call?”

Please don’t read this as me saying the not calling is alright, I’m a big believer in doing what you say you’re going to do. Read more

How To Stay Out Of Routine World

I had a great conversation today with someone about the difference between what a relationship is like the first three to six months, and what it is like once it really “settles in.” It’s really interesting if you think about it.

In the beginning, you try to impress each other. You do special things for each other. When they come over you set an intent for the evening — you light candles, put on some music and maybe make a special dinner. Read more

Why Don’t They Like Me?

I get emails all the time asking me this question: “I like a girl (or guy). I don’t know how I can make her like me more. What do I have to do? Can you please tell me how to get someone to like me more?”

Here is my advice on this. Get on your hands and knees, look up at them and beg them. Stare right into their eyes and say, “Please like me more. Please, oh superior being, like me more. Read more

Avoid Relationship Disasters

Relationships can really be frustrating. I mean, they’re battles at times. They really are. You draw battles into relationships due to ego and expectations. So many things can go wrong in a relationship due, very often, to the way you communicate your needs, wants and desires to each other.

There are ways to be sure that relationship battles don’t cause permanent damage. Read more

How To Get A Girl’s Interest At A Party

As I’m sifting through all of these requests for hook ups, I’m noticing some common denominators in the guys that the girls are interested in. It’s not something new for me, the same types of guys have been attracting attention at my parties for years and it has absolutely NOTHING to do with being “smooth operators” or expert game players. These guys seem to be this way whether they know someone is watching or not. Read more

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