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When Do You Change Your Relationship Status?

Question for the Day: With the advent of social media making our announcements for us (birth, break ups, engagements, weddings, new jobs, etc.), what are the etiquette rules for when to change your “relationship status?” Do you have to talk about it… “Jules, I changed my Facebook AND Myspace status to “in a relationship” you’d better... [Read more of this post]

Why Don’t They Like Me?

I get emails all the time asking me this question: “I like a girl (or guy). I don’t know how I can make her like me more. What do I have to do? Can you please tell me how to get someone to like me more?” Here is my advice on this. Get on your hands and knees, look up at them and beg them. Stare right into their eyes and say, “Please like me... [Read more of this post]

All Women Are Evil

I heard those words and took it as a good opportunity to exit the conversation. All women are evil. All men are dogs. All married people are boring. All women with kids are needy. All… all… all… When someone states: “All ____ are ______ ,” unless you WANT to fit into that equation, walk away. If a person has thought enough about something... [Read more of this post]

Avoid Relationship Disasters

Relationships can really be frustrating. I mean, they’re battles at times. They really are. You draw battles into relationships due to ego and expectations. So many things can go wrong in a relationship due, very often, to the way you communicate your needs, wants and desires to each other. There are ways to be sure that relationship battles don’t... [Read more of this post]

How To Get A Girl’s Interest At A Party

As I’m sifting through all of these requests for hook ups, I’m noticing some common denominators in the guys that the girls are interested in. It’s not something new for me, the same types of guys have been attracting attention at my parties for years and it has absolutely NOTHING to do with being “smooth operators” or expert game players.... [Read more of this post]

Why You Get Who You Get

I want to talk about the importance of doing a “daily dump” every day. In life, it’s really important to be able to dump your thoughts each day, so that you can understand yourself better — the dynamics of who you are, where you are in your life and what your goals are. When you’re very clear in your goals, you’ll then start attracting... [Read more of this post]

Do They Even Know I’m Alive?

Are you sitting around waiting for Mr. or Ms. Wonderful to notice you? Well, stop that! The minute you begin to orbit someone else’s star, you lose all of your own sparkle and shine. Perhaps you’re the person bewailing that your future Ex simply doesn’t know your name even though you’ve stood mutely in their presence at several venues. Or you’re... [Read more of this post]

What Women Respond To More Than Anything Else

It’s funny. If you ask a guy about a woman and say “What do you see?”, he will always pick out the most obvious things. He’ll say “She has great blonde hair” or “I like her body” or “She’s tall” or “She’s wearing a red shirt.” Women, on the other hand, notice totally different things about men. Let me ask you a question.... [Read more of this post]

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